We sold everything and moved to higher ground.
Sold Florida because the waters were rising and the philosophical tide was falling. Oregon went by the crumbling cliffs of our ocean view. Road life became far too weird, so that was also sold and abandoned. Now we are far, far away from normality and have set sail on new adventures.
Embracing Change: The Key to Personal Growth and Fulfillment
Change is an inevitable part of life, and growth is optional. It can be both exciting and terrifying at the same time. Many resist change because they fear the unknown, but embracing change is essential for personal growth and fulfillment. Making left turns can lead to higher ground.
The Comfort Zone: A False Sense of Security
We all have a comfort zone, a place where we feel safe and secure. It’s easy to get stuck in this zone, doing the same things day in and day out, but staying in your comfort zone can hold you back from reaching your full potential. When you’re afraid to step outside of your comfort zone, you miss out on opportunities to learn, grow, and experience new things.
False Expectations Appearing Real (FEAR)
One of the biggest obstacles to embracing change is fear. But what is fear, really? Often, fear is just a set of False Expectations Appearing Real (FEAR). We imagine worst-case scenarios and let those imagined outcomes hold us back from taking risks and trying new things.
It’s important to recognize that these fears are often unfounded. They’re based on assumptions and hypotheticals, not reality. When you can distinguish between false fears and real dangers, you can make more informed decisions about when to take risks and when to play it safe.
Making Left Turns: Seeking Higher Ground
Sometimes, the path to personal growth and fulfillment requires making left turns. This means taking a different route than the one you’re used to, even if it feels uncomfortable or scary.
Making a left turn might mean leaving a job that no longer fulfills you, ending a relationship that’s holding you back, or moving to a new city for a fresh start. These changes can be difficult, but they can also lead to incredible opportunities and experiences.
When you’re willing to make left turns, you open yourself up to new possibilities and perspectives. You challenge yourself to grow and adapt, and you develop resilience and adaptability in the face of change.
Real FEAR: Fuck Everything And Run
Of course, there are times when fear is a legitimate response to a real danger. In these cases, the appropriate response might be to “fuck everything and run” (FEAR). This means recognizing when a situation is truly unsafe or unhealthy and taking steps to remove yourself from it.
Real fear is different from false expectations appearing real. It’s based on a genuine assessment of risk and danger, not imagined worst-case scenarios. When you experience real fear, it’s important to trust your instincts and take action to protect yourself and others.
Embracing Change for Personal Growth
Ultimately, embracing change is essential for personal growth and fulfillment. When you’re willing to step outside of your comfort zone, challenge your fears, and make left turns when necessary, you open yourself up to incredible opportunities and experiences.
Change can be scary, but it’s also exciting. It’s a chance to learn, grow, and become the best version of yourself. So, the next time you’re faced with a change, don’t let false fears hold you back. Embrace the opportunity to seek higher ground and become the person you’re meant to be.
Sometimes, change leads you to a different country and a remote Balearic Island to pursue entirely new things and a different lifestyle. This can be an even stranger change as we experience the culture and styles of an entirely different world outside the United States. Higher ground can be at See Level where people actually appreciate life.
So, we have embraced change and this is just the beginning of a big departure for us. Along with it comes the melody and the harmony of being out of conformity.
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